When it comes to clothes, I have seemed to find that the saying “less is best” does not exactly apply- at least, it shouldn’t. From personal experiences, I have witnessed females constantly complaining about how the male population oversexualizes them, when I have noticed the reality of it is- we seem to be helping them do just that. When walking out of the house wearing mid drift shirts and belly tops as our daily attire, it is obvious we may not likely be viewed as a beautiful woman at first glance. As each year goes by, it amazes me how many girls I see feeling like they have to wear less and less articles of clothing to be noticed, and society not blinking an eye or even feeling an ounce of uncertainty toward this provocative anomaly. Cleavage out, butt cheeks showing, and bellybuttons peeping is just the beginning of this horrific phenomenon of girls feeling the dire need to oversexualize themselves. I have come to the conclusion for myself and my confidence that “less is best” is completely false when it comes to styling myself for me, and that when I dress conservative I feel even sexier than when I show lots of skin.
Turtlenecks have become one my favorite things in the world. Though it is nearing summer, I could not help myself but make a post about my profound love for this very article of clothing. There are tons of ways to look sexy while still being conservative, and trust me, I could go on about those ways for hours; but, turtlenecks are my top go-to’s when I want to feel beautiful, confident and most importantly SEXY in my own skin. Turtlenecks allow you to get away with SO much, by showing very little at all. When wearing a tight, tight fitted turtleneck, your curves instantaneously pop. From your shoulders to your breasts to your waist, every curve is drastically evident and displayed tastefully while showing absolutely NO skin at all! Not only do turtlenecks do an excellent job at displaying all of your curves, but when wearing a fitted turtleneck, I know I feel my confidence nearly sky rocket. When you are able to feel beautiful, sexy, classy and confident all at once, it is almost hard not to be bouncing off the walls from excitement. My boyfriend made a comment to me when I was talking about writing this piece that stuck out to me and that I would like to share with all who are reading this. He said, “When I see a girl and she is wearing a tank top and has her boobs all hanging out, or if she is walking around in some short shorts with that has her butt cheeks popping out, I see her as just two dimensional. I mean, there are her boobs, her butt, and her stomach and that’s that. But if I see a girl, and she is wearing, like you said “a turtleneck”, it adds an extra dimension to her demeanor. It leaves you more interested. Plus, she looks classy.”
I am sure now that the season has passed for turtlenecks, you won’t be scrounging them out of your closets anytime soon, but maybe try and keep the very use of turtlenecks in mind for times where you want to feel confident and classy without showing too much skin. I know I have found that I prefer being seen as the beautiful, interesting and mysterious woman I am, and find this is easier to accomplish when wearing more conservative pieces. Try wearing some tasteful, classy and conservative clothes and ROCKING them to the best of your ability, and see if it has the same effect it had on me on you! When someone looks at you and calls you sexy or beautiful, and you are more covered up, trust me, it may be one of the best confident boosters out there.
Below, I will post some of my selfies from various times where I was “feelin myself” in my turtleneck of the day. There will also be a few selfies of other girls I know that have taken up the turtleneck challenge and ended up LOVING it.
Thanks for reading and all of the continuous love and support I get on the daily. See all you “Nodresscoder’s” on Friday!